๐Ÿ’ Flowers & Gratitude

    ๐Ÿ— After listening to me complain about my impoverished cooking skills, dear friend (and very talented cook) Xander gave me a simple yet well-rounded lesson in all things salt, fat, acid, and heat.

    The results of this first class were immaculate. ๐Ÿ˜ it pays to have knowledgable (and kind) friends!

    ๐Ÿ’ I was delighted to come across the equivalent of a “Flowers & Gratitude” post from 2023 in my Notes app. Here are the best ones, imo:

    • The sound of the needle first connecting with the vinyl on a record player.
    • When a restaurant gives both still and sparkling water for free.
    • My coworker asking me everyday if I want to smoke with him (I don’t smoke).
    • Flower planter boxes hung on fences
    • When strangers respond to cold-call emails.
    • The older gentleman who calls everyone in the office โ€œkiddo.โ€
    • When dogs canโ€™t stop looking at their owners on walks.

    ๐Ÿ’ Flowers, lately (fireworks are flowers, just so you know):

    ๐Ÿ’ These deserve their flowers today:

    • The anticipation of waiting for a new roll of film to be developed
    • The middle-of-chest pocket on overalls
    • Successfully acknowledging a friend who has been working out
    • A warm cup of tea in the evening
    • People who tell you when you have something on your shirt

    ๐Ÿ“ธ Skate Park in Manhattan #3

    ๐Ÿ’ Todayโ€™s flowers go to:

    • Learning from mistakes
    • Having responded to all texts
    • A group hang involving no alcohol
    • The 1st bite of food when youโ€™re really hungry
    • Grapes with that perfect โ€˜popโ€™
    • All examples of Onomatopoeia
    • Giving your subway seat to a stranger and a new seat opening at the next stop

    ๐Ÿ’ Grateful for:

    • Listening to music in a foreign language, still feeling what theyโ€™re singing
    • Elderly strangers who call me nicknames
    • Songs that use the left/right headphone individually for stereo effect
    • Creative sign-offs to letters
    • People who pop their collars
    • Inside jokes
    • Picnics in good weather
    • People who say โ€œhave a nice dayโ€ when exiting the elevator

    ๐Ÿชด My local library in Brooklyn had a โ€œplant swapโ€ on Saturday, where I escaped with some great new greenery. I absolutely love this kind of interconnectedness and community-building.

    ๐Ÿ’ Mark Hurst from Creative Good:

    The next time youโ€™re feeling depressed, hereโ€™s what Iโ€™d suggest: Find something broken in your home, imbue that broken item with all of your negative emotions, and go get it fixed โ€“ at a repair cafe. Repair cafes are community gatherings where volunteers repair the items brought in by guests, for free… The day I visited, there was a palpable energy in the room: alive, positive, and even hopefulโ€ฆ

    I love this. Find a repair cafe near you!

    ๐Ÿ’ Things that deserve their flowers:

    • Cold brew in cold weather
    • Wired headphones
    • Art chats
    • Hooks to hang belongings in bathroom stalls
    • Finding nice furniture on the sidewalk in NYC
    • Unexpectedly seeing someone you know on a subway car
    • Belly laughter
    • People who tell you when thereโ€™s something stuck in your teeth
    • Drinking fountains with long arcs
    • The whimsy of post-it notes

    ๐Ÿ’ Things that deserve their flowers today:

    • Long voice notes
    • Doorstoppers
    • How clothes smell after leaving a coffeeshop
    • Changing minds
    • Tall windows
    • High Ceilings
    • Penicillin
    • Low budget films
    • Dirty jokes

    ๐Ÿ’ I’ve mentioned this before, but I am truly rooting for guys like iShowSpeed. His tour of Africa was such a fun showcase of nations, ethnicities, and culture. Watching him do interviews out of character always reminds me how polite, intelligent, and successful he is–at only 21 years old!

    ๐Ÿ’ GRATEFUL FOR:

    • Coworkers who cook food for the office
    • Ice Packs
    • Heat Packs
    • Deodorant
    • Friends who dance
    • Corner Booths
    • Bright Socks
    • Rollercoasters
    • Board Games
    • Songs with saxophones
    • Thumbs
    • Weather Reports

    ๐Ÿซถ Today in Central Park

    ๐Ÿซถ That feeling when youโ€™ve responded to all the texts in your inbox

    ๐Ÿซถ When the Chipotle worker gives biiiiig scoops

    ๐Ÿซถ When youโ€™ve officially become a regular somewhere because the workers know your order

    ๐Ÿซถ The Oxford Comma

    ๐Ÿซถ NYC stores that provide free and clean public restrooms

    โค๏ธ Texts like these:

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